Since all in Christ will be judged by Christ for rewards, all in Christ should have one aim - PLEASE THE LORD; and one message BE RECONCILED TO THE LORD.
Social order that pleases God includes respecting the body of women and men as well as respecting the life of all men - avoiding sexual abuses of all kinds and avoiding murder.
Whether or not people are pleased or displeased with your actions is insignificant compared to whether or not God is pleased or displeased with your actions.
